Written on 14 February 2017
After 5 months in UK, we, as parents, were invited to
our kids’ school for an “open evening”. It’s a time where parents meet the
teachers to discuss on our kids’ performance at school. I just wanted to share
our experience here but seems of comparing between our experience in here and
in our home country. Of course, I am not comparing but there is pro and cons
for both systems. Please read this with your open heart. Think rationally, try
to accept and improve whatever we can.
What we can say is that this is such a great day where
we can talk personally to our kids’ teachers, we can ask them how were our kids
at school all this while. Do they behave? Can they socialize with other kids?
How do they communicate with their friends and so on. Besides, we can ask their
performance in the academic as well.
In here, we were told about our kids’ performance
basically on their ability to adapt, socialize, communicate, act towards
instructions given as well as their academic. Apparently, the academic is not
really emphasized but we were given feedback on their maths and literacy works.
The report was really comparing between the kids themselves not with other
kids. We were told how’s their improvement based on the first day our kids came
into the class until today, and not comparing between their marks and other
kids’ marks. No ranking at all for our kids. I mean no ranking in the class or
ranking in the school itself. It’s more like how they improved since they joint
the class.
Talking about time, we need to book a time slot for
our meeting, thus, we don’t have to waste our time to queue up in front of the
class. We just come at the time booked, and wait for only a few minutes. This
is because, each slot is allocated 10 minutes for parents to discuss with the
teacher. By the way, in here, most of the schools starts at 8.50 am and ends at
3.15 pm. The open evening is after the school time, from 3.30 pm until 6.30 pm.
Then, as usual, kids are going to the school and learn during the day. No
interruption on the teaching and learning process.
In contrast, last year in our home country, we did
experience the same event, I don’t remember what we call it but of course, it
is a day where we go to the school and meet the teachers to discuss on our kids’
performance. In here, we did not have to book the time slot but we had a
freedom to come at any time on that day during the school time. Once we
arrived, we had to queue before we can meet the teacher. Unfortunately, we had
to wait for two parents of two students in that class. Here, I felt uncomfortable
because it was hot waiting outside the class and it was just waste of the time.
As people know, including my students, I hate waiting of something. I really
manage my time wisely, I don’t like “lepak” in mamak stall or anywhere. I love
doing things or discussing on something informative.
Back to the point, once we’ve got the chance meeting
the teacher, we were shown the performance sheet of our daughter, it is a
result (in terms of marks of every subject taken). We were discussing on where
our daughter did well and where she did not. It’s mainly based on the paper.
The teacher tried to explain what we can do to help our daughter to improve her
bad result. “Do more exercises at home” especially maths and Bahasa…. I felt
like…. Oh my… is this the education that we wanted to? Doing a lot of exercises
can make you perform better? In marks point of view I think yes, it is. But, in
terms of education, there are loopholes that we could improve. I am not
condemning my education system but I am criticizing just to give some inputs
that could improve my lovely country’s education system. At the same time, I am
not saying that UK education system is the best, but like I said, I just want
to give some inputs that could contribute to our better education.
For me, it’s not the marks that make you a better
person or a successful person but the education should be able to educate
people by instilling good deeds. It should also be able to develop the human’s
attitude. Most people believe that parents are the best people to educate their
kids. This statement is true for some reasons but is not really true for some
other reasons.